In this powerful book that has remained on The New York Times
Bestseller List for over two years, don Miguel reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs
that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. When we are ready to change these
agreements, there are four deceptively simple, yet powerful agreements that we can adopt
as guiding principles. The Four Agreements offer a powerful code
of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true
happiness, and love.
1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against
yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth
and love.
2. Dont Take Anything
Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own
reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you
wont be the victim of needless suffering.
3. Dont Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with
others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this
one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be
different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your
best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.